If your husband shouls?d be trying to gain trust.... then why is he doing thi?

ok due to my husband new found lies and stuff i gave him a chance of getting my trust back but ever since i am being nicer and loving it took me 3 months to even feel this way he is doing same **** like before. if we have a arguement rather then solving it he gives me silent treatment and doesn't want to eat he does it always so i have to go up to him and actually beg him to eat his dinner or whatever. right now honestly everything is usually his fault, how can i put an end to his manipulation, he seems to think he can say whatever and do whatever and if i act mad or am mad he will try to come near me (not to work it out) just ignore the issue and fu(K me and get away with it. i tried talking. how do i put my foot down and say its not ok w/o him ignoring it.its weird i am the one mad and i am the one going up to him and begging him to eat and whatevr