My friend called me a "queer" for doing this... do you think it's "queer"-worthy?

Honey, he was mad because he realized he was having fun with another friend who was a guy. If you boys were 10 it wouldn't have mattered. Now that you have testosterone raging...well, he was suddenly embarred and tried to cover up that embarrment with overtly male behavior (ie: the language and the anger). Hopefully he'll apologize, but if he doesn't then he doesn't. You were joking. That's all there was.